Post by Kairis on Aug 15, 2011 1:46:10 GMT -5
hey everyone,
first of all no I will not abandon you. But neither will I abondon a person in need which is why I am posting this in the first place....
I may be a scattered for when I find time to login and post, my moms best friend and I consider her my friend too, she is my mentor when it comes to dogs and she could practically be my mother is in some very serious trouble. I guess I can tell you since you don't know her and it will make it all that much more clear why I may be gone. She has become a victim of domestic violence for 10 years without us knowing..... I can't even belive it to this day, her husband was so nice and caring and I never in a thousand years would have guessed this would happen..... from what I know it is a mental problem and my moms friend had kept what he had done to her behind closed doors for years because it is serious enough he could get years in jail for it and she does truely care for him (which is why she has been married to him for 12 years and has not left or called)
They then had this blow out and things got really shitty my mom is caught in the middle and I am scared for her safetly and at this moment she is spending the night with out family friend because she the friend snapped and told him to leave and they thought he left but he keeps coming back, she locked the gate and he climbed it threatening that "One year in jail isn't a long time and when I am out I am coming after you" so yeah...
It is all so stressful I cannot believe it, I cannot belive she never told ANYONE FOR 10 YEARS. and I can't belive her husband would ever lay a hand on her but I have seen the proof of it recently and its not pretty. I am scared for her safety, for my moms safety, for her dogs and families safety and even myself. Sorry to rant but I just needed to get it out,
I really hope you understand... I will be popping as frequently as I can though.
Love Kairis
first of all no I will not abandon you. But neither will I abondon a person in need which is why I am posting this in the first place....
I may be a scattered for when I find time to login and post, my moms best friend and I consider her my friend too, she is my mentor when it comes to dogs and she could practically be my mother is in some very serious trouble. I guess I can tell you since you don't know her and it will make it all that much more clear why I may be gone. She has become a victim of domestic violence for 10 years without us knowing..... I can't even belive it to this day, her husband was so nice and caring and I never in a thousand years would have guessed this would happen..... from what I know it is a mental problem and my moms friend had kept what he had done to her behind closed doors for years because it is serious enough he could get years in jail for it and she does truely care for him (which is why she has been married to him for 12 years and has not left or called)
They then had this blow out and things got really shitty my mom is caught in the middle and I am scared for her safetly and at this moment she is spending the night with out family friend because she the friend snapped and told him to leave and they thought he left but he keeps coming back, she locked the gate and he climbed it threatening that "One year in jail isn't a long time and when I am out I am coming after you" so yeah...
It is all so stressful I cannot believe it, I cannot belive she never told ANYONE FOR 10 YEARS. and I can't belive her husband would ever lay a hand on her but I have seen the proof of it recently and its not pretty. I am scared for her safety, for my moms safety, for her dogs and families safety and even myself. Sorry to rant but I just needed to get it out,
I really hope you understand... I will be popping as frequently as I can though.
Love Kairis
